....-in-law

Assalamualaikum..

kali ni nak bercerita/share tentang ....-in-law..yang .... tu maknanya ibu/ayah/adik/kakak/abang/sedara-mara pasangan kita..biasanya macam-macam kita akan dengar bila perhubungan nan satu ini dibicarakan..macam-macam pengalaman.

actually, my younger sister {third in sibling} got married on Oct 2010..so that, she shared her experiences when dealing with mak/abah/adik2 husband dia since her husband is the first {abg long tu hehehe} and got three younger sisters n one younger brother {bongsu}..so adik-adik ipar perempuan ni xjauh beza umur dgn dia {mys sis}..

berdasarkan pengalaman dia, memula tu mmg ada kesukaran untuk adapt with new family eventhough in-law dia tu family friend kami..tp both parties managed to adapt and make the situation goes well {in my personal observation, her mom-in-law always be frank with her..all do's n dont's are told and explained..lucky her rite..alhamdulillah}. so, i've no worry..i believe, we are the one, who should make things better.not the situation or gelaran..

Me?different..coz i've no mom-in-law {pity me rite huhuhuu}..she passed away when hubby aged 10 years old..luckily, he has sister *sigh*..thru-out our 5years of frienship&so-called couple, twice i went to his house {her sis's house actually}..first when me n his bff send him back coz thouroughly injured {eksiden yang sgt ngeri} and second on mac 2010 {i went to my bf's wedding n her sis wanna see me.oh no!!!}.

on 21 March 2010, this family came to met my family..dag dig dug..funny thing, mama yang gelabah lebih sb both families xpernah jumpa lagi..kiranya, this time datang untuk kenal2 n bincang2 *shy*..at last, my her sis hand me a ring. whoa!!!never expected this..both of us agreed not to get engaged but if families really want it, we'l arrange.then, cincin tu untk apa?*blur* {mama kata cincin risik.ayah kata cincin tunang.my SIL kata cincin risik.hubby kata cincin tunang}.. tunang?*jatuh tergolek2*..akhirnya, both families happier..

Since married?after almost 5months, twice i went back.one, during the kenduri sambut menantu n 2nd during my oustation {luckily, hubby worked there at that time..otherwise?hehehe}..therefore, me n in-laws are good.Alhamdulillah..eventhough we rarely met before this but my SIL an her kids are nice with me..but they didnt call me Maksu but Kak hehehhe..

as now, we can accept each other..doaku, semoga kasih, sayang dan ihsan dalam perhubungan baru ini berkekalan..Ameen..Ameen Ya Rabbal 'Alamin..

p/s: best pe ada family baru..biasalah kalau kena adapt, adopt n accept..yang penting rahmah wa mawaddah dalam keluarga..*me?so happy*